OK I was trying to find the phone to pick it up. Then I decided to screen the call and listen to the message.
Here is how It went.
"Hey Murray, this is Bob and I am calling you just to wish you Happy Birthday. I sent you a card in the mail, but I am not sure it got to you in time because of the holidays and all. Well hope you have a great day."
So basically Murray where ever you are. Bob is not a jerk. He did call you on your birthday. He didn’t send a late birthday card. He was thinking about you on your special day.